How to Identify the Subtle Traits of Toxic Relationships
Toxic friendships rarely announce themselves. Trauma therapist Duygu Balan, LPCC, breaks down the subtle traits of a toxic friend, including inconsistency, jealousy, manipulation, and boundary-pushing, along with the signs a friendship has turned one-sided and how to set boundaries or walk away.
Grief’s Impact on the Body
Grief is not only emotional. Duygu Balan, LPCC, explains how loss affects the heart, immune system, gut, and sleep, why it can reawaken old trauma responses, and which holistic strategies help the mind and body recover.
When the High-School Jerk Grows Up
Childhood bullies often grow into adult bullies, at work and beyond. Therapist Duygu Balan, LPCC, explains the unhealed trauma behind bullying, practical ways to respond as a target or a bystander, and how former bullies can heal.
What to Do Before Talking to a Boss About Your Mental Health
Before disclosing a mental health struggle at work, preparation matters. Duygu Balan, LPCC, outlines how to assess personal needs, understand ADA and FMLA protections, request specific accommodations, and document every conversation.
Why Gen-Zers Keep Their Phones on 'Do Not Disturb'
Why do so many Gen Zers let calls ring out? Duygu Balan, LPCC, author of Confidently Chill, explores phone anxiety, the sense of control texting offers, and why real-time human connection still matters for mental health.
When Forgiveness Can Be Detrimental to Trauma Recovery
“Forgive and forget” is often framed as a requirement for healing. Drawing on two decades as a trauma therapist, author Duygu Balan, LPCC, argues that pressuring survivors to forgive can re-traumatize them, and that true healing begins with self-compassion.
An Erection Is Not Consent
Men are sexually assaulted far more often than reported, including by women. Duygu Balan, LPCC, explains why an erection is a physiological response rather than consent, the myths that silence male survivors, and why inclusive advocacy matters.
Safe Sexting
Sexting can build intimacy, but images can be leaked, sold, or used for blackmail. Duygu Balan, LPCC, lays out the rules of consent and boundaries plus practical privacy safeguards, from hiding identifying features to turning off location data.
Stuck in a Situationship?
No label, no future plans, inconsistent texting: these may be signs of a situationship. Duygu Balan, LPCC, outlines seven signs of a noncommittal relationship, its genuine pros and cons, and how to start “the talk.”
Tearing Down the Stigma Around Shedding Tears
Crying is still treated as weakness, especially for men. Duygu Balan, LPCC, explains the biology and psychology of tears, how stories from Alice in Wonderland to Frozen portray their transformative power, and how to cry well.
Beyond Family Ties: Choosing Your Tribe
Family is not defined by blood alone. Therapist and author Duygu Balan, LPCC, explores how chosen family builds belonging and authenticity, and how chosen professional circles help therapists prevent burnout and deliver better care.
Capturing Today's Worst Dating Trends
Ghosting, breadcrumbing, benching, submarining: dating apps and social media have given toxic behaviors new names. Celebrity therapist and author Duygu Balan, LPCC, defines the worst dating trends, explains their psychological toll, and shares how to set boundaries and move on.
Unveiling the Therapeutic Journey of 'Good Will Hunting'
Why does Good Will Hunting remain the benchmark for therapy on screen? Celebrity therapist and author Duygu Balan, LPCC, analyzes Sean and Will’s sessions, from therapeutic fit and self-disclosure to the famous “It’s not your fault” scene.
Are You Gaslighting Me, or Am I Really Too Sensitive?
Gaslighting is not a diagnosis but an ongoing dynamic of manipulation. Duygu Balan, LPCC, breaks down common tactics, the warning signs in romantic, workplace, and medical settings, and concrete steps for trusting one’s own perception again.
Breaking the Cycle of Dysfunctional Relationships
People-pleasing, approval-seeking, and conflict avoidance can be echoes of attachment trauma. Duygu Balan, LPCC, author of Re-Write, explains how absent or abusive parenting shapes adult relationships, and the therapy, writing, and somatic tools that help break the cycle.